Bad news and good news
Friday, January 2, 2009
Today has been mind-blowing, simply because I've witnessed incredible highs and horrific lows...
And that's not even including the entries I'm judging for the RWA's Golden Heart contest. ;)
In all seriousness, this time of year can be absolute crap for those who are dealing with the loss of a loved one or a diagnosis that points out where the end of the road will be. It turns out that a friend's husband has pancreatic cancer. And that really, really sucks.
When life throws a curve ball like that, it makes it impossible to focus on whether or not the laundry gets done or if there are any groceries in the fridge.
And then, just when I was ready to shake my fist at the sky and declare that there was no bright side to anything that could happen today, I stepped outside into a snowstorm.
Okay, maybe it wasn't a snowstorm, but it might as well have been with the mood I was in. Ready to grumble and just not bother with going to the store, I was interrupted by Lukas, the five-year-old pirate wannabe who lives next door.
"Bonnie, it's snowing!"
Sure, he was totally stating the obvious, but he said it with such glee and punctuated it with a prance across the lawn that I couldn't help but smile, then laugh, and then join him in catching snowflakes with our tongues.
And you know something? Lukas' weather report was absolutely right. It was snowing. And he took full advantage of it.
I just have to remember the wisdom of a five-year-old when things get tough.
Peace out.
And that's not even including the entries I'm judging for the RWA's Golden Heart contest. ;)
In all seriousness, this time of year can be absolute crap for those who are dealing with the loss of a loved one or a diagnosis that points out where the end of the road will be. It turns out that a friend's husband has pancreatic cancer. And that really, really sucks.
When life throws a curve ball like that, it makes it impossible to focus on whether or not the laundry gets done or if there are any groceries in the fridge.
And then, just when I was ready to shake my fist at the sky and declare that there was no bright side to anything that could happen today, I stepped outside into a snowstorm.
Okay, maybe it wasn't a snowstorm, but it might as well have been with the mood I was in. Ready to grumble and just not bother with going to the store, I was interrupted by Lukas, the five-year-old pirate wannabe who lives next door.
"Bonnie, it's snowing!"
Sure, he was totally stating the obvious, but he said it with such glee and punctuated it with a prance across the lawn that I couldn't help but smile, then laugh, and then join him in catching snowflakes with our tongues.
And you know something? Lukas' weather report was absolutely right. It was snowing. And he took full advantage of it.
I just have to remember the wisdom of a five-year-old when things get tough.
Peace out.
posted by Bonnie Staring at 9:35 PM
4 Comments:
Kids are so great about being able to let their emotions go to crazy depths and then quickly recover with complete joy. It is dizzying to me to watch with my kids but refreshing to be reminded that life really is a mix of all the crap and all the greatness.
Sorry to hear about your friend's pancreatic cancer. I sent my positive wishes out to the universe's karma for him.
Bonnie - I can absolutely picture you catching snowflakes on your tongue :)
So sorry to hear about your friend's hubby. I'll add my positive thoughts to the universal karma too...
Ditto on the positive thoughts.
And you're so right about kids having the different perspective that we need to remember. But I'm not anxious for grandkids to remind me either, LOL.
(word verification is peabar - um, no thanks. I prefer the old fashioned juice thank you.)
Thanks guys. (And glad that the word wasn't peebar, because that would be even more wrong.)
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