Stuck recap: Episode 7
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
This week is the infamous rock-climbing excursion. Or, as the DH calls it, "one very small step for Bonnie, one giant leap for everyone else." LOL
This was a hard one for me. Between my fear of heights and my frozen right shoulder, I just felt couldn't do it. And, as I so eloquently said on national television, that "f***ing sucks." (Sorry Mom.) It was great to see everyone give rock climbing a try, especially Mary, who was even more scared than I was about going up the wall.
And yeah, there was a little drama between Mary and I on this episode. Okay, maybe a lot of drama.
Ugh. Ever heard of Watergate? Well, the production team refers to this episode as the start of Ductgate -- a huge dilemma brought on by a thoughtless comment made by little old me. And the reason I call it thoughtless is simple: I didn't think it would hurt anyone's feelings. That was never my intent.
If you didn't see it, let me try to explain. Of course, this is my version of events; I'm sure I'd appear even worse if anyone else told it. Especially if interpretive dance is used. ;)
After a really lousy experience (for me anyway) rock climbing, we all gathered to talk about how the past week had been. You could feel Mary's stress from about five miles away. And really, who wouldn't be stressed changing jobs, trying to move, trying to work out and eat right all while being a wife, mother and dog owner?
So Mary was telling us how her daughter was driving her crazy one evening, and I, feeling the need to lighten things up, suggested that she try putting duct tape over her daughter's mouth to keep her quiet.
It was meant as a joke. And it totally backfired.
Now I'm sure a bunch of mothers (or even pet owners who feel I was way out of line) who watched tonight's episode are now burning photos of me (or crude drawings) and carrying big sticks while on their way up my driveway, ready to call me names and throw rolls of duct tape at my head.
And this isn't the last we're gonna hear about this...my most uncomfortable on-camera conversation happens next week. Thank goodness I've worked on my core strength -- I'm gonna need it when Mary beats the crap out of me while showing off her new tattoo!
Have I mentioned yet that groups make me kind of uncomfortable? Oy...
This was a hard one for me. Between my fear of heights and my frozen right shoulder, I just felt couldn't do it. And, as I so eloquently said on national television, that "f***ing sucks." (Sorry Mom.) It was great to see everyone give rock climbing a try, especially Mary, who was even more scared than I was about going up the wall.
And yeah, there was a little drama between Mary and I on this episode. Okay, maybe a lot of drama.
Ugh. Ever heard of Watergate? Well, the production team refers to this episode as the start of Ductgate -- a huge dilemma brought on by a thoughtless comment made by little old me. And the reason I call it thoughtless is simple: I didn't think it would hurt anyone's feelings. That was never my intent.
If you didn't see it, let me try to explain. Of course, this is my version of events; I'm sure I'd appear even worse if anyone else told it. Especially if interpretive dance is used. ;)
After a really lousy experience (for me anyway) rock climbing, we all gathered to talk about how the past week had been. You could feel Mary's stress from about five miles away. And really, who wouldn't be stressed changing jobs, trying to move, trying to work out and eat right all while being a wife, mother and dog owner?
So Mary was telling us how her daughter was driving her crazy one evening, and I, feeling the need to lighten things up, suggested that she try putting duct tape over her daughter's mouth to keep her quiet.
It was meant as a joke. And it totally backfired.
Now I'm sure a bunch of mothers (or even pet owners who feel I was way out of line) who watched tonight's episode are now burning photos of me (or crude drawings) and carrying big sticks while on their way up my driveway, ready to call me names and throw rolls of duct tape at my head.
And this isn't the last we're gonna hear about this...my most uncomfortable on-camera conversation happens next week. Thank goodness I've worked on my core strength -- I'm gonna need it when Mary beats the crap out of me while showing off her new tattoo!
Have I mentioned yet that groups make me kind of uncomfortable? Oy...
Labels: Stuck
posted by Bonnie Staring at 11:57 PM
7 Comments:
Hi Bonnie,
I caught one episode of this show. You don't know me, and I don't know you, but I was struck with how supportive you were with one with of the women. (I don't know her name.) She was talking about something, and I could see your hand reach over and touch her back in support. It was such an instinct movement, and honestly, I thought you must be one very supportive person.
So, try not to trouble too much over the duct tape comment. It was funny. And part of our core inner strength is being able to realize things can be taken out of context. It's about intent, and your intent was not to hurt.
Good luck with winning the Bay thingie.
Susanne
You don't know me either but I also caught this episode and wanted to say you shouldn't worry about the comment. Your intention was not to harm anyone, and based on the friendships between all of you on the show, I don't imagine there will be any grudges. I love the show - it's honest, inspiring and refreshing. I hope you all enjoyed making the show as much as I enjoy watching it! All the best:)
Thank you ladies! I guess it was hard for me to watch what went on at that time because, even though we all knew each other, we still didn't quite understand each other. And, as we all know, when you put a bunch of women who are watching their weight in a room together, something is bound to happen!
Thank you for your comments, I really appreciate them. This show was so much fun to do and I'm glad you're enjoying watching it. I can't wait for you to see how far we've all come along on our journeys!
Big hugs to you both!
Bonnie, I guess I know you too well. I'm a mother, and had you said that to me sweetie, I would have laughed.
I do get your uncomfortableness being in crowds. I am so shy.
Plus, being afraid of heights as well, I get your stress. I do.
It was okay, you're so supportive, so sweet. People know that there is no malice in you.
Except when you torture your characers. bwahahaha.
You're so right, Amy! If my characters could, they'd use duct tape on me. LOL
I have duct tape in my purse whenever I see Bonnie and I'm not afraid to use it.
Actualy, she casrries it in two colors to coordinate with my outfits. ;)
Cuz that's what friends are for.
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